Friday, November 15, 2013

How to break your mother's heart


I must admit that I was surprised when my darling DD chose sequins for her formal.  She is not a  girlie girl, very pragmatic about clothes and from next year will commence studies for a career that requires hob nailed boots rather than heels.

I should have offered caution about the bling factor.  When she started to make comments that she felt the sequined top was too much, I thought that she would come around eventually. But she persisted and stubbornly taking piece of black silk from my stash, threatening to wear it unsewn, wrapped around her.

I've got to admit, I admired her creativity and tenacity, but couldn't allow the inevitable wardrobe malfunction.  So two nights before the event, I stopped crying over my couture work and gave in.

I cut the same design in the black silk. The workmanship is sloppy and it breaks my perfectionist heart. But my DD is happy and confident.  After all it was her night!

I wore a new silk Satuki from Victory patterns to the pre-party.  It is a great pattern and the perfect party frock for Sydney summer.  I'd already worn it to a cocktail party the week before but don't have any proper photos yet.  Highly recommend the pattern if you need to whip up a quick dress.  My fabric width was narrow so made the flounce as a separate piece.  This works very well.  As you can see from our smiles, I am speaking to my daughter again, who promises to wear the top to a party soon.
 


 

 


28 comments:

  1. Oh my! Well, she and you both look absolutely beautiful and so glamorous! so all is well :) I do really like the black top with the blingy skirt, it does balance out nicely, and the gorgeous sequinned top would look super cute for all sorts of occasions; including less formal with jeans or jeans shorts. You are a fabulous Mum!

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  2. I think my daughter's refusal to wear anything I buy or sew for her is payback for the hard time I gave my mother by being fussy. I can now appreciate her pain...and yours. You both look happy and gorgeous so all is well. The blingy top will look fabulous worn as a separate. I guess you can rejoice in the fact you made separates rather than a full dress in the bling. Imagine the tears you'd be shedding if it was a complete dress sewn with such perfection that she was refusing to wear. Your fabric is gorgeous by the way.

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  3. Thank goodness you made separates and not a dress, your work won't be for nothing, you said yourself how great the sequin top would look paired with other things and now we know the same is true of the skirt. You both look lovely. Is that the satsuki that you are wearing?

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  4. You both look beautiful. I agree with the others, luckily you were making separates! She is lucky to have the option to decide at the last minute - you are a great Mum! The skirt have a lovely shape to it. I love your dress too. I would love the see the bling together though!

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  5. Simply beautiful!

    I think the black top is very chic with the sparkly skirt. It' a good balance, though I understand your pain!

    I would like to see more of your dress. That fabric looks gorgeous.

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  6. The sequinned outfit would have looked amazing, but the black silk top is just as beautiful. Children are sent to test our patience aren't they? (Mine especially I think!). Your dress looks great too, looking forward to seeing the photos

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  7. Just like Carolyn - Oh my! But wow she looks stunning and I bet she gets lots of wear out of the sequins top. I love the fabric in your dress - and just like the others I can't wait to see more of it.

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  8. I think she looks stunning and even though it was trying, at least you were able to give her a wonderful dress for her big event. Just think if you had to buy a second dress... Lovely work.

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  9. Like off the pages of a magazine :) She looks absolutely gorgeous and the gal next to her is quite the knock out as well!! Love the fabric you're wearing.

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  10. The combination is beautiful. She looks just like mommy!

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  11. I think she looks great, but I can understand how you feel. Well done!

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  12. How lovely! She looks beautiful.

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  13. Your daughter looks gorgeous and confident in her outfit and you look gorgeous in your new dress.

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  14. Your daughter looks so beautiful in her outfit and the black top is gorgeous with the sequin skirt. You look stunning in your top, too. Great job.

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  15. Pretty, I love the black and sequins! I really want to make my dress for my ball/formal next year but I'm a little nervous.

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  16. The things we do through 'gritted-teeth' so that special nights are remembered! Well done on whipping this black top up, it really does look like a stunning outfit on your gorgeous daughter. Both of you look perfect on this special occasion - congratulations ... J

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  17. You both look fabulous and I love the belt your daughter wore with her outfit. Remember your efforts have given her the potential of many outfits for many different occasions!

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  18. I agree. You both look great. She has her own style and you help her create it. Now that works right?

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  19. It's gorgeous Gail - she looks radiant! The style is very flattering on her, and looks great even if it doesn't quite meet the standard you would like it too :)

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  20. Well, she looks gorgeous, and lucky you made them as separates and not a sequined dress. Perhaps one day she'll wear them together? In the meantime, she has a gorgeous skirt, and versatile black top, and by the sounds of it, a pretty, blingy top, which will probably be perfect for New Years Eve?

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  21. You both look terrific! I hope you´ll show us your dress in more detail soon. And I like your daughter choice. She looks stunning in her sequinned skirt and halter top. IT IS PERFECT!

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  22. Fabulous! You both look so beautiful! I love the separates idea for this outfit, and the black looks so elegant. Even though she didn't wear the sequin top this time, she'll have many more occasions to wear it. Great job!

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  23. I love the black silk top with the sequined skirt. It is a stunning outfit, and she is a beautiful woman. Your dress looks very pretty and interesting. I will have to check out the link to the pattern when I have more time

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  24. Oooh! You both look like a million bucks! Your dd looks so elegant and sophisticated. And you look thoroughly chic!

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  25. I'm very late to the party ...but you both look fabulous...bet the sequinned top looks great with skinny jeans and heels.

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